{"id":49,"date":"2022-04-25T13:25:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-25T13:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/moneywithkatie.com\/are-you-wealthy-a-reality-check-about-skewed-perceptions-of-what-rich-is\/"},"modified":"2025-09-03T18:58:27","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T18:58:27","slug":"are-you-wealthy-a-reality-check-about-skewed-perceptions-of-what-rich-is","status":"publish","type":"essays","link":"https:\/\/moneywithkatie.com\/essays\/are-you-wealthy-a-reality-check-about-skewed-perceptions-of-what-rich-is\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Wealthy? A Reality Check, and Some Perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"sqs-html-content\" data-sqsp-text-block-content>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Let me ask you a question: Do you consider yourself wealthy?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Whether you do or you don\u2019t, what\u2019s your justification for your answer?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">If I had to guess, it has something to do with <em>comparison<\/em> to people in a similar situation to you, as opposed to any hard-and-fast numbers: If you look around at your life, income, and net worth, and that of people similar in age and geography, do you <em>feel<\/em> like you\u2019re better off, or worse?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">This question is fascinating to me\u2014more accurately, the answers are fascinating.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It\u2019s funny how you might hear someone who makes $60,000 per year and drives a leased Mercedes describe themselves as wealthy, while someone with hundreds of millions of dollars may not.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">In a lot of ways, it\u2019s not always subjective. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marketwatch.com\/story\/millennials-are-delusional-about-how-rich-theyre-going-to-be-2018-12-06\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">This MarketWatch article<\/span><\/a> from 2018 points out (depressingly) that a staggering number of Millennials (65%) believe they\u2019ll be \u201crich\u201d in the not-too-distant future. That\u2019s adorable \u2018n optimistic, but when you look at the saving <em>behavior<\/em> of many Millennials, it wouldn\u2019t suggest that\u2019s a realistic assumption (roughly the same number of Millennials have nothing saved for retirement).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Some call it the Mark Zuckerberg effect, presumably implying that our generation has a few shining tech stars that make us believe unthinkable fortune is on the other side of just <em>one<\/em> good idea that starts as a means for comparing girls\u2019 respective levels of hotness but eventually morphs into a society-altering, democracy-damaging invention. #oopsie<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I\u2019d agree with the Mark Zuckerberg effect\u2014but with a totally different definition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">My oversimplified theory? The <em>apps<\/em> that Mark owns drive this warped belief system that everyone\u2019s richer than they actually are.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Why? Because these apps commodify, memorialize, and aggregate the natural comparison that plagues every generation of human beings. \u201cThe Joneses\u201d are no longer just the people who live in the McMansion next door to you and drive a newer Buick than you do\u2014<strong>the metaphoric Joneses are now any one of the 1 billion people you can follow on Instagram<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Pre-social media, you didn\u2019t know that there were a slew of cool teens parading around Los Angeles in G Wagons and Gucci sweaters drawing from an inexplicable and invisible pool of funds despite having no discernible job beyond being hot and intriguing on the internet.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">This is not a new or novel idea (in fact, I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019ve written about it before), but I was thinking about it in a more in-depth way the other day after receiving a DM that went something like this:<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">\u201cDo you think people who make a lot of money still don\u2019t feel wealthy because our idea of what constitutes a good life that we deserve to be living in America is just warped to shit?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">(Expletives mine.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It\u2019s an interesting phenomenon. In America, we see opulent displays of wealth portrayed as relatively normal. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2021\/06\/23\/how-much-wealth-top-1percent-of-americans-have.html\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">The top 1% of richest people in America control 16x as much wealth as the bottom 50%<\/span><\/a>. Yeah. No matter how bad you think the wealth inequality is, I can almost guarantee you: It\u2019s worse than that.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Think about reality television for a second: The name itself implies it\u2019s reflective of reality.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">But whose reality?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Shows like Real Housewives, Keeping Up with The Kardashians and its 17 spinoffs, Below Deck, Selling Sunset and Vanderpump Rules are among some of the most popular that <em>don\u2019t<\/em> revolve around one person dating 25 people at once in a New Mexico mansion.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It doesn\u2019t take an Ivy League degree to recognize that <em>all<\/em> of these \u201creality\u201d shows depict the lives of 1%-level wealth (or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.justice.gov\/usao-nj\/pr\/real-housewives-new-jersey-stars-sentenced-prison-conspiracy-bankruptcy-fraud-and-tax\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">those defrauding their way to it)<\/span><\/a>. Kylie Jenner, the 24-year-old KarJenner with more money than any of the rest of \u2018em besides Ole\u2019 Kimmy, is reported to be worth about $700 million. She has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.the-sun.com\/entertainment\/4288129\/expensive-kardashian-handbags-kylie-jenner-birkin-kris-hermes\/#:~:text=In%202020%2C%20Kylie%20showed%20off,bag%2C%20worth%20nearly%20%24300K.\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">handbags that cost more<\/span><\/a> than <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/money\/personalfinance\/real-estate\/2022\/01\/25\/housing-market-2022-early-spring-surge\/6595504001\/?gnt-cfr=1\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">the median home in the United States<\/span><\/a>. Scenes of the show depict her standing in her 1,600-square foot closet surrounded by millions of dollars worth of handbags and shoes, having a casual conversation about what to eat for dinner: The juxtaposition fuels an almost-comedic level of absurdity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I can\u2019t remember (or find) the name of the social psychology phenomenon, but it\u2019s a little bit like why people think plane crashes and gun violence are more prevalent than they actually are: When you\u2019re super exposed to something (via news or popular culture), it feels more commonplace than it actually is. You <em>think<\/em> something is more likely to happen to you than it actually is, statistically speaking, because you hear about it a lot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It\u2019s easy to feel like you\u2019re falling way behind\u2014or deserve a lot more than\u2014what\u2019s reasonable.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">So let\u2019s explore: How wealthy are <em>you<\/em>?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">To answer this question, we first must zoom out and get a healthy dose of #perspective.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Let\u2019s expand our horizons for a moment to consider the entire world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">According to the Credit Suisse Global Wealth Report from 2021 (which you can download and peruse <a href=\"https:\/\/www.credit-suisse.com\/about-us-news\/en\/articles\/news-and-expertise\/global-wealth-report-2021-effects-of-covid-on-household-wealth-in-2020-202106.html\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">here<\/span><\/a>), you\u2019re in the top 1% of wealth <em>globally<\/em> if you have more than $1 million.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">If you have between $100,000 and $1 million, you\u2019re in the top 10% of richest people in the world.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Between $10,000 and $100,000? You\u2019re still in the richer half.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">39% of all global millionaires live in the United States. To contextualize how wild that is, consider that the next-largest chunk comes from China, clocking in at just 9%.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">That may make it <em>seem<\/em> like you\u2019ve got a better shot at becoming a millionaire in the US than in the rest of the world, but it\u2019s important to remember the scale here: Only 8.8% of Americans are millionaires, whereas 15% of the Swiss population holds this title. Still, America\u2019s \u201cpercentage of population considered millionaires\u201d still ranks 3rd globally, surpassed only by Switzerland and Australia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">And the percentage of Americans with Kardashian-level wealth is even smaller: Roughly 80,000 Americans (0.02%) have between $50 million and $100 million. Last time I checked, the Kardashians account for 6 of the 80,000, not including their spouses. Well-played, Kris Jenner. (I suppose a few of them don\u2019t even fall in this group, as Kim is worth a billion, Kylie\u2019s got $700 million, and Kris is worth more than $100 million. They\u2019re part of an <em>even smaller <\/em>upper echelon.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Cool. So that\u2019s that. These numbers tend to vary depending on the source (which makes sense, given they\u2019re likely a little hard to track definitively), but the <em>ballpark<\/em> is telling.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Let\u2019s zoom in now to the US alone and think about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.investopedia.com\/personal-finance\/how-much-income-puts-you-top-1-5-10\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">income<\/span><\/a> alone for a moment.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">How rich is rich in the US?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">To be a top 0.1% earner in the US, you have to earn a staggering $3.2 million per year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">To be a top 1% earner, $823,763.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Top 5%? $342,987.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Top 10%?&nbsp; $173,136.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">If you\u2019re placing yourself in the above brackets, congratulations: You\u2019re part of the chunk of the United States that\u2019s doing <em>very well<\/em>. Some of you may remember when I shared this depressing wealth inequality chart a few months ago:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>      <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/moneywithkatie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/WealthInequality.webp\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<div class=\"sqs-html-content\" data-sqsp-text-block-content>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">So what about a top 1% minimum net worth in America? <a href=\"https:\/\/www.investopedia.com\/financial-edge\/1212\/average-net-worth-of-the-1.aspx#:~:text=The%20minimum%20net%20worth%20of,numbers%20have%20been%20growing%20dramatically.\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">The EPI placed that number around $11.1 million in 2021<\/span><\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Age plays a role, too: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/interactive\/2019\/08\/12\/upshot\/are-you-rich-where-does-your-net-worth-rank-wealth.html\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">If you\u2019re younger than 35 and you have a million dollars, then yes, you are rich. You are above the cutoff for the 99th percentile of household wealth for that age, which is $998,000.<\/span><\/a>\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">So what\u2019s the point of all this? Well, for one thing, to put things in perspective a little bit. Even if you don\u2019t <em>feel<\/em> rich, if you have more than $100,000, you\u2019re richer than 90% of the world population.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Some people may feel annoyed by this: <em>Who cares if I\u2019m \u201cricher\u201d than the rest of the world if I can\u2019t make ends meet?&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">This was the crux of the original DM that spurred the comment about a warped sense of reality: Someone had DM\u2019d to say they felt stretched thin as a single mom making $200,000 per year.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Some people were outraged by this, and I suppose understandably so: $200,000 per year is no small sum.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It got me diving into all of the above, as well as another related question: Why does life in America cost so much?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">At the risk of clobbering the dead horse, I think it can be traced back to two major things: a lack of social safety nets (everything from healthcare to education to childcare to elder care is considered an individual responsibility with premium costs associated) and the wealth inequality we saw above.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">What about median measures of wealth and median costs in the US?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Now that we\u2019ve taken a stroll down Rodeo Drive and feel sufficiently broke as fuck, let\u2019s flip the script:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">We\u2019ve seen what it takes to be the richest of the rich in America and experience the opulent lives of those on E! and Bravo\u2026but what about the <em>median <\/em>income and net worth in America?&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">To be clear, the \u201cmedian\u201d can be a better metric for measuring what life for <em>most<\/em> is like, as opposed to an \u201caverage\u201d that can be skewed by extreme outliers.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">The median tells us\u2014if we lined up each and every of the 332 million people that live in the United States from richest to poorest\u2014what the 166 millionth person would make. The person in the dead middle of the line.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">The median <em>household<\/em> income in the US (let\u2019s assume two adults) is <a href=\"https:\/\/seekingalpha.com\/article\/4491634-median-household-income-january-2022\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">$74,099<\/span><\/a>, according to data that came from the US Bureau of Economic Analysis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">The median net worth in the US was <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywithkatie.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/scf20.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">$121,700 in 2019<\/span><\/a> (page 11).<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">That means roughly half the country has less than $121,700, and the other half has more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">A median income of $74,099 doesn\u2019t sound <em>too<\/em> bad\u2014until you consider that the inflation-adjusted median income in 2000 was $67,428. That\u2019s a real growth of $6,671 over 22 years, or the equivalent of a \u201creal\u201d raise of $303 per year.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Meanwhile, <a href=\"https:\/\/dqydj.com\/historical-home-prices\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">the median home value in 2000 was $219,232<\/span><\/a> adjusted for inflation (meaning that\u2019s the \u201c2022 dollars\u201d version of the price; the nominal price at the time was closer to $98,000).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">The median home value today is $355,876.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">That\u2019s a real increase of $6,211 per year. It\u2019s not hard to see why a $303 raise in median income won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">It\u2019s a little bit like what Barry Ritholtz <a href=\"https:\/\/ritholtz.com\/2019\/04\/buy-yourself-a-fking-latte\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">wrote<\/span><\/a>: \u201cThe costs of <a href=\"https:\/\/ritholtz.com\/2016\/08\/inflation-things-need-vs-things-want\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">what we need<\/span><\/a> keep rising, while the cost of the <a href=\"https:\/\/ritholtz.com\/2018\/02\/price-changes-1997-2017\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">junk we want<\/span><\/a> keeps falling.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">To summarize neatly: If you feel like your life costs more and more and you\u2019re not able to live as well as your parents were on the same (or less), you\u2019re not imagining things. Things are getting more expensive, and real wage growth is slowing (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.epi.org\/blog\/wage-inequality-continued-to-increase-in-2020-top-1-0-of-earners-see-wages-up-179-since-1979-while-share-of-wages-for-bottom-90-hits-new-low\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"text-decoration:underline\">unless, of course, you\u2019re in that coveted top 1%\u2014then you would\u2019ve seen a real wage growth of 179% since 1979, as opposed to the 28% real growth experienced during the same period by the bottom 90% of earners<\/span><\/a>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">One of the articles I was reading put it well: \u201cIf you\u2019ve got $2 million, you\u2019re probably rich. $1 million isn\u2019t really what it used to be.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I\u2019m not trying to come to any moral conclusions about this state of affairs: I\u2019ll let you come to your own conclusions about whether or not this is the direction we want to go.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">But what I <em>do<\/em> want is to level-set for #RichGirl nation and serve all of us (me included) a reality check.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Shit\u2019s getting harder for the middle class. Hell, if we\u2019re to believe the 60% of Millennial six-figure earners living paycheck to paycheck, it\u2019s not <em>just<\/em> getting harder for the middle class. (Ironically, six-figure incomes are now considered lower-middle class in some parts of the country.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">And that\u2019s not <em>really<\/em> the point: The point, dear Rich Girl, is this: <\/p>\n<h2 style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Building wealth is now both harder and easier than it\u2019s ever been<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Harder in the sense that the costs of your basic living expenses (the \u201cstuff you need\u201d) are rising faster than wages. Harder in the sense that we\u2019re more exposed than we\u2019ve ever been to the lifestyles of the ultra rich, through both reality television and social media. The temptation is greater than it\u2019s ever been for us to compare our seemingly average-ass lives to others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">But it\u2019s easier in the sense that the barrier to entry to invest has really never been lower. Do you have an internet connection and $5? You can invest in a matter of minutes for free. Literally.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Understanding that your own perception of the type of life you \u201cdeserve to\u201d or \u201cshould\u201d be living is likely distorted can be the magic formula here: It helps you stay grounded in your expenses and instills an appropriate amount of scarcity mindset.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\"><strong>Paradoxically, in this way, you\u2019re probably both better off and worse off than you believe. <\/strong>If you feel broke as hell making $80,000 per year, you can remind yourself that you\u2019re still richer than most of the world\u2019s population\u2014while simultaneously recognizing that $80,000 isn\u2019t enough to live like a king in the United States.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I caught myself in this same trap the other day: I make a \u201ctop 5%\u201d income in America, and I found myself staring longingly at Kylie Jenner\u2019s forearm full of Cartier LOVE bracelets. Each one ranges in price from $5,000\/pop to well over $10,000, depending on how many diamonds it\u2019s encrusted with.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">\u201cWhat if <em>I<\/em> got a Cartier LOVE bracelet?\u201d I began to wonder, meandering through the website and sorting the bracelets by \u201cPrice: Low to High.\u201d (Note to self: Sorting jewelry by \u201cPrice: Low to High\u201d is probably a good sign you shouldn\u2019t be buying it. The most hilarious and extreme epitome of \u201cI deserve a treat,\u201d culture.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I was admiring one with a price tag north of $5,000 when I had a rude awakening and snapped out of it: $5,000 for a bracelet represents less than 0.0007% of Kylie\u2019s total wealth.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">$5,000 represents about .8% of mine. Almost a full percentage point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Kylie spending $5,000 on a bracelet would be the equivalent of me buying something that costs $4.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I didn\u2019t get the bracelet.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">So how rich are YOU?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">There\u2019s a metric offered in the book <em>The Millionaire Next Door<\/em> by Thomas J. Stanley that helps you calculate whether or not you\u2019re accumulating wealth at the appropriate rate based on how much you earn, which isn\u2019t <em>exactly<\/em> the same thing as determining whether or not you\u2019re <em>rich<\/em>, but purports to be a good measure of whether or not you\u2019re on the right track.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">Take your total annual pre-tax income <strong>x<\/strong> your age <strong>\u00f7<\/strong> 10.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">That\u2019s what your net worth \u201cshould\u201d be.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">When I did this exercise, it told me that I should have $1,080,000.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">On my own, I have roughly half that. My household has about that much.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">I\u2019d consider myself a pretty damn good saver, and I\u2019m (clearly) nowhere close.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\" style=\"white-space:pre-wrap;\">How do you stack up?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let me ask you a question: Do you consider yourself wealthy? 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